Brunei

Brunei Darussalam, a small sovereign state on the northern coast of Borneo, offers a distinctly calm and orderly experience compared to its neighbors. For families, this means safe streets, high hygiene standards, and manageable distances between attractions. Unlike the backpacker trails elsewhere in Southeast Asia, Brunei is quiet and developed, making it an easy entry point for parents traveling with young children who want to experience the rainforest without sacrificing comfort.

The capital, Bandar Seri Begawan, is anchored by the magnificent Omar Ali Saifuddien Mosque, which appears to float on a lagoon. While entry to the prayer hall is restricted during prayer times, the surrounding park and the ceremonial stone boat are excellent spots for an evening walk. A short boat ride across the river takes you to Kampong Ayer, known as the "Venice of the East." This sprawling settlement built entirely on stilts contains schools, mosques, and fire stations. Families can hire a water taxi-often the highlight of the trip for kids-to zip through the wooden maze and visit the cultural gallery to see how locals live above the water.

Nature in Brunei is accessible without requiring multi-day treks. A simple boat tour into the mangroves near the city center offers high chances of spotting wild proboscis monkeys, famous for their long noses and pot bellies, as well as monitor lizards and crocodiles. For active families with older children, a day trip to Ulu Temburong National Park provides genuine adventure. The journey involves a traditional longboat ride up shallow rapids followed by a climb to a canopy walkway that offers views from high above the jungle floor.

For downtime, Jerudong Park Playground is an amusement park that is often surprisingly quiet, allowing children to enjoy rides and gardens without long queues. Many families also visit The Empire Brunei, a palatial hotel where the massive lagoon pools and coastal grounds are a major draw. The Royal Regalia Museum is another indoor option, displaying the Sultan's gold chariots and ceremonial armor in air-conditioned comfort.

Practical Considerations: Brunei follows strict Islamic laws, which contributes to its very low crime rate and family-friendly atmosphere (alcohol is not sold in the country). Families should dress modestly, covering shoulders and knees, especially when visiting religious sites or government buildings. The climate is hot and humid year-round, so outdoor activities are best planned for early mornings or late afternoons. Getting around is best done via the Dart app (local ride-hailing) or a rental car, as public buses can be infrequent.